Frequently Asked Questions
At Family Support Trust (FST), we understand that survivors, families and community members often have questions about where to go, what to do and how to access our services. Below are answers to some of the most frequently asked questions to help you better understand our work and how you can get help.
1. Where should I report first? The hospital or the police?
Your health comes first, it is best you report to the clinic first within 72 hours so as to receive medical services since sexual abuse puts you at a health risk of contracting HIV/ STIs and unwanted pregnancies
2. Who is most likely to sexually abuse a child?
Most child sexual abuse is perpetrated by someone known to the victim or survivor.
3. What do I do if I am abused by a parent or a relative?
If you’re experiencing abuse whether from a parent or relative, know that it is not your fault and you are not alone. Reach out to someone you trust and report to a teacher, school counselor, neighbor, friend, or community leader. Sharing what’s happening can help you access support and protection.
4. How much does it cost to get all the services you offer?
It does not cost any money. All the services offered by Family Support Trust are free.
5. When is the best time to report?
It is best to report as soon as it happens or within 72 hours
6. If the abuse happened 10 years ago should I still come and seek services?
Yes! absolutely! Even if the abuse happened 10 years ago, you still have every right to seek support and services. Abuse can leave deep emotional, psychological, and even physical scars that don’t simply disappear with time. Many survivors carry the impact for years, and healing often begins when you feel safe enough to talk about it.
7. If my boyfriend sleeps with me even if I did not consent is it sexual abuse?
Yes, it is sexual abuse. If your boyfriend has sex with you without your clear and willing consent, that is sexual abuse and it is never okay.If you were pressured, manipulated, afraid to say no, or simply did not agree, then what happened is a violation of your rights. It doesn’t matter if you’re in a relationship, being someone's partner does not mean they have automatic permission to your body.
Need More Information or Support?
If your question is not listed above, or you would like to speak to someone directly, our team is ready to assist you with confidentiality and care.